tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post7174614943148878130..comments2022-06-19T14:09:19.590-06:00Comments on the word for love is...: i don't believe in resolutions (part 2)...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-63510021454454214182010-12-27T04:33:45.551-07:002010-12-27T04:33:45.551-07:00I'm pretty depressed these days too. You'r...I'm pretty depressed these days too. You're not alone. But I try to look at the brighter side of life. :)Yeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06942792564563308118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-10858718425995817662010-12-27T03:14:26.542-07:002010-12-27T03:14:26.542-07:00Wow, thank you all for the supportive comments... ...Wow, thank you all for the supportive comments... I was in kind of a dark place when I wrote this, I was feeling a bit depressed this holiday season. I really appreciate everything you guys have said, you're all such wonderful readers. And, don't worry, I really have cut off all contact from him, I don't want him in my life at all... I just have moments of weakness sometimes.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07930104498801599148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-71502933004027743002010-12-26T17:56:19.841-07:002010-12-26T17:56:19.841-07:00awwwww i'm so sorry!!! that's terrible! i ...awwwww i'm so sorry!!! that's terrible! i wasn't able to discern if you two are still together, but if you are, you need to get rid of him ASAP. it dosn't matter how in love with him you used to be; he is a horrible and manipulative person who dosn't deserve you at all!Hope Adela Pasztorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18393869430833457823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-10698012187941067222010-12-26T08:05:22.945-07:002010-12-26T08:05:22.945-07:00One more thing: drop that motherfucker like a cold...One more thing: drop that motherfucker like a cold turkey. If you don't trust yourself, then change your contact information, your number; do what you've got to do.Jashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15715933879509916904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-74568380980291529082010-12-26T07:56:55.436-07:002010-12-26T07:56:55.436-07:00The good news? There are others out there who have...The good news? There are others out there who have been abused and we snapped out of it and left it behind. You just joined us. You may go through a crazy period similar to what children with overbearing parents go through when they get to college, but that will pass. You'll be amazed at how much stronger and more confident you'll become. <br /><br />Learn from this horrible mess and live life for you and only you.<br /><br />Pretty soon, YOU'LL be the one dumping ferret shit into an asshole's shoes.Jashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15715933879509916904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-44095716424775709862010-12-26T02:57:27.472-07:002010-12-26T02:57:27.472-07:00You are so beautiful.You are so beautiful.Molliwobbleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14121252204419016636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-28005280106495474442010-12-26T02:46:29.071-07:002010-12-26T02:46:29.071-07:00I don't know you but NOBODY deserves to be tre...I don't know you but NOBODY deserves to be treated like that. Not even one time, ever. Just for being alive you deserve more than that but you're also smart, pretty, loving, and many other qualities that are worth appreciation. My advice would be to not contact him again, not even to see how he's doing. It's not worth the chance of him worming his way back in. Delete his number from your phone, delete him from myspace and facebook. It's easier to cut someone out if you're not checking up on them all the time. And know that not only do you deserve better, you will find better. It might take awhile to heal but now you know, this isn't the kind of "love" you want. And in the future, you'll be able to recognize when a guy is a great guy, and there really are a lot of them out there, promise. <3Jordanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13589511407119128109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-5153139067749827952010-12-25T12:55:25.408-07:002010-12-25T12:55:25.408-07:00First of all let me say this, you ain't worthl...First of all let me say this, you ain't worthless AT ALL. Never EVER think that, the person who is worthless is R. Am glad you are out of that mire of a relationship, what he did to you is unforgivable!!!!. You will find someone that will love you and help you to heal. And your not stupid either. Your not alone in this. So stay strong. <br /><br />As for R...let's hope he doesn't meet me in a dark alley one day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-56061351170651220422010-12-23T10:52:10.045-07:002010-12-23T10:52:10.045-07:00I got through reading it all :) It doesnt seem lo...I got through reading it all :) It doesnt seem long when you are interested in the story. I have been there...only I lived with him...the cheating, the abuse, the lies...OMG the lies! And it was all mostly attributed to technology. Let me be the first to say that moving in together...only makes things worse. WAAAAY worse! I got away...thank god! Its been 8 years...I am happily married with a 5 year old...see? There is hope for us "broken souls" Keep strong girlie! <br /><br />-NatJust Plain Ordinaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02031943144361062972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-25586727871933891752010-12-23T10:04:26.880-07:002010-12-23T10:04:26.880-07:00"...because he said he wanted to marry me and..."...because he said he wanted to marry me and have a family with me, that I won't get that opportunity with anyone else."<br /><br />I wish it was easy to not believe what he says. I know it may be hard for you to realize this, but what he says isn't true. You WILL find someone else. Someone better. There's always someone better out there, it just sometimes takes a while to find. Like everyone else, I admire your strength. <br /><br />But please be careful when returning home. I've seen similar situations with people close to me, where they'll leave to get away from an abusive partner, and when they come back, there they are... with the abusive partner again. If you know you shouldn't be with this person-- that it's not healthy-- then that's the first step. Continue to be strong by resisting the urge to go back to him. <br /><br />Anyone who thinks this person is a good guy thinks so only because he's doing the same to them as he did with you-- lying to and manipulating them. I think someday they'll see his true colours, and that can be your sweet revenge. But... try not to feel sorry for him. He's doing this only to control you. He needs professional help (it sounds like there may have been early development problems). It's hard because you're a caring person, but... you need to start looking after yourself first. ESPECIALLY because this person is treating you so terribly...<br /><br />I'm sorry that all has happened to you... try to take it as a learning experience though, to make yourself even stronger for the future... <br /><br />I hope you have a wonderful holiday... take good care of yourself, Tara! You're a wonderful person from what I've experienced in the short time I've known you. =)Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17254770279307598423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-33275869767053386432010-12-23T09:31:57.607-07:002010-12-23T09:31:57.607-07:00PS: Don't you EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER fal...PS: Don't you EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER fall for his lies EVER again! Those are plain bullcrap.'Cause if you do, I'll stop looking up to you.Haha.But seriously don't. Okay? :)Yeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06942792564563308118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-51275930104431188582010-12-23T09:25:38.354-07:002010-12-23T09:25:38.354-07:00Well, kudos to me! I really have to admire...no, W...Well, kudos to me! I really have to admire...no, WORSHIP you for the strength, perseverance, love and everything else you did for the past three years. Any man would want a woman like you. If you can give that much love and acceptance to a man as insane and as fuckin' broken as he is, what more if you find a good man? He'd be in heaven, believe me. Indeed, three years is a long time. And the wounds (physically, mentally, emotionally) you took from R will heal but the scars will surely remain. But let these scars remind you that you had surpassed a huge hurdle in your life. That you are ready to take on anything life may throw at you. That you can and will stand up again. That your lost self-esteem and self-worth will soon be regained. Now that you ranted everything out, stay happy okay? Heck, I'd want to ask you out! Lastly, I want to say don't lose trust on the male gender okay? He's just one of those malfunctioning male nincompoops. Hope you can read this cause I put my heart here. You're the new person I look up to. :)Yeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06942792564563308118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296628704001522901.post-44784965946833428542010-12-23T08:46:26.902-07:002010-12-23T08:46:26.902-07:00oh.
stay strong girl!oh.<br /><br />stay strong girl!Susannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13003239201536381952noreply@blogger.com